High-Conflict & Coercive Control
So much of what women contend with during divorce is really intense grief. Sometimes they don’t name it that or even realize that’s what’s happening, but that is what’s happening. Barri Leiner Grant, founder and Chief Grief Officer™ of The Memory Circle, is back with me to keep the conversation going about grieving before, during, and after divorce. For those […]
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This weekend, I’m getting married. And before you’re like, wait, what podcast am I listening to? stay with me. Because if you’ve been here a while, you know this show isn’t just about leaving. It’s about what comes after. It’s about what’s possible. So today I’m talking about what happens when you don’t settle, what healthy love actually feels like, […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
I am so glad to bring Dr. Emma Katz back to the show. She is a senior lecturer in criminology at Edgehill University and one of the world’s leading experts on coercive control. She is the author of Coercive Control in Children’s and Mothers’ Lives and writes the Substack Decoding Coercive Control, where she makes this research clear to process […]
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Something I hear increasingly among my client population is the experience of burnout after divorce. And this is the thing that very few people prepare you for. You’ve made it through the hardest decision of your life. You survived the chaos of the initial separation. You got through the legal process. And then you get to the other side, expecting […]
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Imagine what it would be like to create healthy relationships without sacrificing ourselves as women. That is exactly what Michelle Farris helps women do. Michelle is a psychotherapist and codependency expert, and this conversation goes deep fast. She brings both the clinical knowledge and the lived experience of someone who has done her own recovery work, and honestly, we could […]
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The question I hear more than almost any other, from clients, from women inside Phoenix Rising, and from my community is: “Why didn’t I leave sooner?” Perhaps it’s an inner voice that nudges. It sounds like you, but it’s partially your friends, your family, maybe your attorney or it’s cultural. That voice asks, “If it was so bad, why did […]
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I’m back with Dr. Amelia Kelley, and we are diving into a topic that sits at the intersection of law and trauma, Kentucky’s 50/50 custody ruling and its very real consequences for survivors. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, professor, TEDx speaker, author, neurodiversity and mental health advocate, and host of the Sensitivity Doctor podcast. Her work centers on […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
One of the things I see so often with women going through divorce, especially high conflict divorce, is this instinct to explain yourself, to clarify, to defend yourself, to make sure the other person understands what actually happened. But here’s the problem: in a high conflict divorce, explaining yourself is often the very thing that keeps you stuck in the […]
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High-Conflict & Coercive Control
Sarah McDugal is back on the podcast, and this time we’re talking about what it actually takes to protect your children inside a family court system that often reframes abuse as “mutual high conflict” and makes the protective parent look like the problem. Sarah is a clarity coach and founder of Freedom Navigator and Wilderness to Wild, where she works […]
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Let’s talk about something that sits at the center of so many of the conversations I have with women: men’s rage is not a communication issue. It’s a responsibility issue. So many of us are taught to treat anger like something that can be solved with better tools, better timing, or more understanding. Something you can help fix. But when […]
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